There’s nothing quite like a dessert that brings back fond memories and new experiences all at once, and “Not Yo Mama’s Banana Pudding” is exactly that kind of treat. Growing up in a bustling Mexican-American household in Asheville, North Carolina, my love for food was nurtured around a lively kitchen table. While banana pudding wasn’t a staple in our home, it was the kind of Southern comfort food that intrigued me as I explored the culinary landscapes of my new home in Charleston. This recipe is my take on a classic, blending the nostalgia of traditional banana pudding with a few twists that make it uniquely mine. Join me on this delightful journey as we create a dish that’s as heartwarming as it is delicious.
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Why You’ll Love This Not Yo Mama’s Banana Pudding
Not Yo Mama’s Banana Pudding is a dessert that strikes a perfect balance between tradition and innovation. It’s a dish that carries the comforting flavors of creamy banana custard and vanilla wafers while introducing a few unexpected elements that elevate it to something truly special. My approach is inspired by the lessons learned from my abuela, who taught me to trust my senses and embrace creativity in the kitchen. Whether you’re a lifelong fan of banana pudding or a curious newcomer, this recipe is sure to become a favorite in your home.
One of the things I love most about this recipe is its simplicity. As a busy food lover myself, I understand how important it is to have recipes that are easy to follow and don’t require hours in the kitchen. This banana pudding is straightforward, yet the end result is a decadent dessert that feels like it took much more effort than it actually did. Plus, it’s a wonderful way to bring people together—just like the meals around my family’s table back in Asheville.
Ingredients You’ll Need for This Not Yo Mama’s Banana Pudding

- 1 box of vanilla wafers (about 12 ounces)
- 4-5 ripe bananas, sliced
- 1 package (8 ounces) cream cheese, softened
- 1 can (14 ounces) sweetened condensed milk
- 1 box (5 ounces) instant vanilla pudding mix
- 3 cups cold milk
- 1 teaspoon vanilla extract
- 1 container (12 ounces) whipped topping, thawed
Feel free to get creative with the ingredients. For a richer flavor, consider using homemade vanilla pudding instead of instant, or add a splash of rum extract for a subtle twist. If you’re a fan of nuts, a sprinkle of toasted pecans on top can add a delightful crunch.
Nutrition Facts
- Calories: 420 per serving
- Protein: 6g
- Fat: 20g
- Carbohydrates: 55g
- Fiber: 2g
- Sugar: 40g
- Sodium: 300mg
These nutrition facts are based on typical serving sizes for banana pudding. Remember, moderation is key, especially with such a delightful dessert!
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Reinventing Tradition: Dive into Not Yo Mama’s Banana Pudding
Learn how to make delicious Not Yo Mama’s Banana Pudding. Easy recipe with step-by-step instructions.
- Total Time: 45 minutes
- Yield: 4 servings
Ingredients
- 1 box of vanilla wafers (about 12 ounces)
- 4-5 ripe bananas, sliced
- 1 package (8 ounces) cream cheese, softened
- 1 can (14 ounces) sweetened condensed milk
- 1 box (5 ounces) instant vanilla pudding mix
- 3 cups cold milk
- 1 teaspoon vanilla extract
- 1 container (12 ounces) whipped topping, thawed
Feel free to get creative with the ingredients. For a richer flavor, consider using homemade vanilla pudding instead of instant, or add a splash of rum extract for a subtle twist. If you’re a fan of nuts, a sprinkle of toasted pecans on top can add a delightful crunch.
Instructions
- In a large mixing bowl, beat cream cheese until smooth. Gradually add the sweetened condensed milk, mixing until thoroughly combined.
- Add the pudding mix, cold milk, and vanilla extract to the cream cheese mixture. Beat until the mixture is smooth and thickened, about 2-3 minutes.
- Gently fold in the whipped topping with a spatula, taking care not to deflate the mixture.
- In a large serving dish, create a layer of vanilla wafers at the bottom. Add a layer of sliced bananas on top of the wafers.
- Spread a portion of the pudding mixture over the bananas, smoothing it out with a spatula.
- Continue layering wafers, bananas, and pudding until all ingredients are used, finishing with a layer of the pudding on top.
- Cover the dish with plastic wrap and refrigerate for at least 4 hours, or until the wafers have softened and the pudding is set.
My tip? Make this dessert a day ahead. Letting it sit overnight allows the flavors to meld beautifully, resulting in an even more delicious experience.
- Prep Time: 15 minutes
- Cook Time: 30 minutes
- Category: Main Dish
- Method: Cooking
- Cuisine: International
Steps to Create Your Not Yo Mama’s Banana Pudding
- In a large mixing bowl, beat cream cheese until smooth. Gradually add the sweetened condensed milk, mixing until thoroughly combined.
- Add the pudding mix, cold milk, and vanilla extract to the cream cheese mixture. Beat until the mixture is smooth and thickened, about 2-3 minutes.
- Gently fold in the whipped topping with a spatula, taking care not to deflate the mixture.
- In a large serving dish, create a layer of vanilla wafers at the bottom. Add a layer of sliced bananas on top of the wafers.
- Spread a portion of the pudding mixture over the bananas, smoothing it out with a spatula.
- Continue layering wafers, bananas, and pudding until all ingredients are used, finishing with a layer of the pudding on top.
- Cover the dish with plastic wrap and refrigerate for at least 4 hours, or until the wafers have softened and the pudding is set.
My tip? Make this dessert a day ahead. Letting it sit overnight allows the flavors to meld beautifully, resulting in an even more delicious experience.
Tips for Making the Best Not Yo Mama’s Banana Pudding
To ensure your Not Yo Mama’s Banana Pudding is a hit, keep these tips in mind:
- Choose ripe bananas: Ripe bananas add natural sweetness and a creamy texture to the pudding.
- Layer evenly: Ensure each layer of wafers, bananas, and pudding is even for consistent flavor in every bite.
- Chill thoroughly: Allowing the pudding to chill helps the flavors develop and the layers to set properly.
As my abuela always said, “La paciencia es una virtud” — patience is a virtue, and it certainly pays off with this dessert!
Serving Suggestions and Pairings

This banana pudding is perfect on its own, but if you want to take it up a notch, try serving it with:
- A drizzle of caramel sauce for added sweetness.
- A dollop of freshly whipped cream and a sprinkle of cinnamon for a warming touch.
- Paired with a cup of freshly brewed coffee or a glass of cold milk.
Whether it’s a casual family gathering or a special occasion, this dessert will surely impress your guests.
Storage and Reheating Tips
Store any leftovers in an airtight container in the refrigerator. The pudding can be stored for up to 3 days, but it’s best enjoyed within the first 1-2 days for optimal flavor and texture.
If you find yourself with an abundance of pudding, consider sharing it with friends or neighbors. After all, sharing food is one of the best ways to connect with others, much like the meals I enjoyed with my family growing up.
Frequently Asked Questions
What are the main ingredients for Not Yo Mama’s Banana Pudding?
The main ingredients for Not Yo Mama’s Banana Pudding include the items listed in our ingredients section above. Each ingredient plays a crucial role in achieving the perfect flavor and texture.
How long does it take to make Not Yo Mama’s Banana Pudding?
The total time to make Not Yo Mama’s Banana Pudding includes both preparation and cooking time. Check the recipe card above for exact timing details.
Can I make Not Yo Mama’s Banana Pudding ahead of time?
Yes, Not Yo Mama’s Banana Pudding can often be prepared in advance. Store it properly in an airtight container in the refrigerator and consume within the recommended timeframe.
What can I serve with Not Yo Mama’s Banana Pudding?
Not Yo Mama’s Banana Pudding pairs well with various sides and accompaniments. Consider the serving suggestions mentioned in the recipe for the best dining experience.
Is Not Yo Mama’s Banana Pudding suitable for special diets?
Depending on the ingredients used, Not Yo Mama’s Banana Pudding may be adapted for various dietary needs. Check the ingredients list and consider substitutions as needed for your dietary requirements.
Final Thoughts
Not Yo Mama’s Banana Pudding is a testament to the joy of blending tradition with a personal touch. It’s a dessert that brings people together, much like the vibrant meals shared in my childhood home. I hope this recipe inspires you to explore your own culinary creativity and create lasting memories with your loved ones. Remember, cooking is about more than just food—it’s about sharing warmth, love, and stories. Happy cooking, and may your kitchen always be filled with laughter and delicious aromas.